Also known as a form of exhibitionism, being watched while masturbating brings incredible satisfaction to many. This is a fairly common kink, and it can be expressed in a number of ways. In simple words, exhibitionism is the derivation of sexual gratification through displaying one’s naughty bits. It is similar to voyeurism and can sometimes be seen as deviant behavior.

But why do people enjoy this act? What is so arousing about being watched while you masturbate? Well, this comes from a different aspect for penis and vagina owners. All genders have their own unique reasons why they enjoy being watched while touching themselves, from the embarrassment or disgusted reaction of the watchers to sexual gratification that can go both ways.

Women can teach you a lot!

Everyone enjoys masturbation because you get to enjoy yourself the way you love the most. You get to use toys or just your fingers and pleasure yourself until you are fully satisfied. You also know all your sweet spots, so it is a completely different experience than having sex. However, why do women enjoy being watched while they masturbate?

They love to be perceived in a sexual way. Some women enjoy it when men sexualize them, and what better way to be seen sexually than to masturbate in front of your partner? There are a lot of men who enjoy watching their lovers masturbate as well because that is just an affirmation of them as sexual beings.

On top of that, female masturbation is often seen as something taboo. There are still many men who think that women do not masturbate, and that is completely false. Women masturbate as often as men, and they orgasm a lot more. Thus, there are a lot of men who enjoy being watched while they touch themselves in all sorts of ways. Some even enjoy using a variety of sex toys.

Let’s not forget that many men are not that skilled when it comes to making their women orgasm. A lot of women can make themselves cum just by using their fingers, so this could be a great educational experience. If your girl wants you to watch her masturbate, maybe she is trying to teach you about the naughty pleasures she enjoys the most. Pay attention to her fingers, her expressions, and where/how she is pressing her toys.

What’s more intimate than watching your partner pleasure themselves? Masturbating is something we all like to do in private. Oftentimes, people will not broadcast their horniness and masturbation to everyone; that is something very intimate. Thus, doing it in front of your man can be incredibly thrilling and arousing. Masturbating in front of your man is as intimate as it gets

Men enjoy your reactions

Similarly to women, men also love to be watched when they jerk off as a form of intimacy. They might also want to teach you a thing or two about handjobs, but in most cases, for men, it is all about power and control. Masturbating in front of a woman and making her watch indicates that you are in full control over the situation.

In short, it is about power, control, and a pathological desire to elicit some sort of a feeling, whether it is shock, disgust, or them liking what they see. A lot of women are aroused when watching their men masturbate, but there are many who do not enjoy that at all. If you like being watched while you masturbate, it is important that you find a woman who is willing to do it for you.

Finding a gorgeous woman who is willing to watch you jerk off can be incredibly thrilling and arousing. Sometimes, this might develop into mutual masturbation, or your girl might help finish you off. There are tons of variations when it comes to masturbation exhibitionism. You could also spice things up and masturbate for your woman in rather unconventional locations. This all comes down to each individual’s naughty preferences.

How to masturbate in front of your partner?

If you’ve discussed your fetishes with your lover, and both of you are on the same page, here are some things that could help you enjoy this experience. It is completely natural to be nervous before you get down and dirty, but there are a few steps you can take to become a lot more comfortable with the idea of being watched while you masturbate or watching your love masturbate.

Setting the mood is essential!

A lot of people tend to overlook this simple step, but it definitely goes a long way. Prepare the environment; declutter the room, light some candles, put on some music, and meditate. It is good to get into that headspace before you start enjoying yourself in front of your partner.

Be open and honest

Before you start getting down and dirty, it is important that you are on the same page as your lover. Discuss what you enjoy, the reason why you want to be watched, and what you would want them to do. This can be incredibly exciting, sexy, and intimate.

Start slow

There is no rush! You should not start this session already ready to orgasm. Instead, start slow and be passionate. Show your partner what kind of motions you enjoy the most, and incorporate toys if you want to. Some individuals enjoy being watched as a form of foreplay; others enjoy mutual masturbation or just being watched.

Dirty talk is always welcome

While pleasuring yourself or slipping out of your clothes, incorporating some dirty talk can be fun. Sometimes, the watchers enjoy being in charge as they tell you what you should be doing, how to pleasure yourself, etc.

Enjoy yourself!

This can be a thrilling experience for both parties, which is why you must ensure you are on the same page as your partner. Just remember, do what feels good and keep it passionate. Your partner is bound to get a lot of sexual gratification from watching you masturbate. You can also switch it up and add some role play, dirty talking, toys, and other things.